When deeply in love, there are moments when we become one with the other (in all kinds of relationships). At other times, perhaps only after a little while, our 'ego' convinces us to think again, reconsider. Fear may come into play (what if ....) or calculation (why should i ... if...) etc. Love is no longer unconditional, we are no longer One with the other.
Mooji speaks of outgrowing relationships. Well, be careful how you choose to interpret this. Even the most mind blowing relationships will be outgrown, IF one or both partners choose to remain on the surface and not move deeper and deeper in unison. If, as Mooji explains, everything rotates around sex or material things etc the relationship has already an expiry date. This is the norm in the 'developed' world and in particular the West.
If you are an exception, you will find a way to move in unison with your partner to more meaningful and subtle qualities such as truth, trust, acceptaance, unconditional love, admiration of the positives etc. If one of the two is unwilling or unable to follow, then the relationship will fail. Not because anyone is being punished but because Life's target is growth, expansion of consciousness, "pushing" us to become superior persons, helping us to exceed ourselves and our limitations.
If we cannot grow together in unison, then one is holding back the progress of the other and the end of the relationship is quite likely. One is faced with the next challenge, relationship, person that needs in order to be able to grow. And if you think that by staying in a dead relationship you do not have to face any more challenges, you are mistaken. The challenges that one faces in a dead relationship, of any kind, are as difficult.
Life, Creation are expanding, evolving all the time. As part of this Creation we cannot be an exception. Evolving, growing, expanding means transcending our limitations. Both pleasure and pain is involved as part of this "learning" or finding ourselves process. Let go, accept Life and try to make the most of it.
Nicos Pavlides
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uH7AxVnYFfM
Mooji speaks of outgrowing relationships. Well, be careful how you choose to interpret this. Even the most mind blowing relationships will be outgrown, IF one or both partners choose to remain on the surface and not move deeper and deeper in unison. If, as Mooji explains, everything rotates around sex or material things etc the relationship has already an expiry date. This is the norm in the 'developed' world and in particular the West.
If you are an exception, you will find a way to move in unison with your partner to more meaningful and subtle qualities such as truth, trust, acceptaance, unconditional love, admiration of the positives etc. If one of the two is unwilling or unable to follow, then the relationship will fail. Not because anyone is being punished but because Life's target is growth, expansion of consciousness, "pushing" us to become superior persons, helping us to exceed ourselves and our limitations.
If we cannot grow together in unison, then one is holding back the progress of the other and the end of the relationship is quite likely. One is faced with the next challenge, relationship, person that needs in order to be able to grow. And if you think that by staying in a dead relationship you do not have to face any more challenges, you are mistaken. The challenges that one faces in a dead relationship, of any kind, are as difficult.
Life, Creation are expanding, evolving all the time. As part of this Creation we cannot be an exception. Evolving, growing, expanding means transcending our limitations. Both pleasure and pain is involved as part of this "learning" or finding ourselves process. Let go, accept Life and try to make the most of it.
Nicos Pavlides
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